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Sugarloaf, A Love Story

Hello and welcome to Kate’s Holiday Letter 2024!  Some of you may be new to this format, though I know many of you have received my letters in the past. If you like my holiday stories, be sure to let me know and you will keep receiving them. I do enjoy my one opportunity a year to share my writing and experiences with you guys. This year, I’m excited to share something very special with you. As many of you are aware, this is the time of year when my family becomes basically unavailable because we are skiing almost every weekend. For us, ski season is the most beloved time of year. It’s a time when we clear our calendars of social obligations and devote ourselves to the worship of snow.  However, perhaps you do not understand our love of this cold, expensive, intense activity - and that is the impetus behind this year’s story. I want you to catch a glimpse of what it’s like for us, and in doing so, you will understand more of what it means to be a Sydney/Cook. Our story b...
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Kate and Piano, A Complicated Relationship

Hello, Dear Reader. It's been a long, long time, but this Irreverent Blonde Girl would like to share a story about herself and the piano. Why? Because I need to work through some stuff, ok??!! I started taking piano lessons when I was 5 or 6. I took weekly lessons (excepting summers) until I was 18. By the time I was 10, I would wake regularly at 5AM to deliver the Boston Globe to my neighbors and then come home to practice for an hour before school. I'd play the Westminster Chimes to wake everyone up at 6AM. My first lessons were with Ms. X, whose name I cannot remember. In my memory, she is very tall, with ethereal, orange-colored hair, piercing blue eyes and a calm, accented voice. She lived in what felt like an extremely cloistered house in Needham. On my birthday, she gave me a Princess Diana paper doll book. Second was Ms. Gordon. She was very calm, very patient, very steady. We spent an hour each week in a room in a church in Wellesley. She's the one who tau...

My Mom: The Best

Hi Everyone,  I've actually been meaning to write this blog entry for months, but...well...it's been busy!  I realized though, that this weekend marks a very important time for both me and my mother.  After all, it is my first mother's day as a mom and it's my mom's first mother's day as a grandma (or a Granny Boo, as we call her around here.)  So I wanted to take a moment to talk about my mom and thank her, in front of everyone, for what a wonderful, wonderful, wonderful person she is.   I thought perhaps the best way to do so would be to highlight some of the things I love most about her. #1: My mom is a natural care-taker I'm realizing that it's part of a mother's duty to be the nurse of the family.  Fathers are, of course, helpful and strong and protective, but nothing can replace a mother's sure and calming touch in times of intense pain or awful sickness. My mother shines when it is her time to care for others.  It'...

Dear Sydney, you are not missing out.

Dear Sydney, You are NOT missing out.  You have been trying to not fall asleep for about an hour and a half now.  It is 2am. NOTHING IS GOING ON except me typing this with my thumb.  Everyone in this neighborhood is asleep right now. Your dad is in the other room, snoozing away (goddamn his ever living soul).  The kitties are sleeping all curled up in their beds. Goodnight moon and all that.  So really, there is no reason for you to try so hard to stay awake. You are missing nothing interesting.  I recognize it is my fault for trying to put you down in a drowsy state like the internet told me I should. I should have known better. 1am is no time for sleep training. If I had just effing kept rocking you, you would have been asleep 40 minutes ago.  Stop it with the sighing and the protests when the pacifier falls out of your mouth and GO TO SLEEP.  I promise that all the stuff that you think you're missing out on will definitely not happen tomorrow d...

Things I love about Sydney - Part One of Infinity

Hi Guys, So I've spent a whole lot of time discussing how I feel about pregnancy and the first month of parenting, and let's just say I haven't had a lot of very positive things to say. But, I have my first month with Sydney under my belt now and can honestly say that it feels like she and I have turned a corner together.  Though this morning was not a good example of that, seeing as she pushed out a fountain of poop all over the nursery while screaming at the top of her lungs while I agonized over a sudden bout of flaming red diaper rash.  You guys, the poop came out with such force that I yelped, "OH MY GOD" and had to stand back and watch in horror.  I had no idea her digestive system was so robust. However...that aside, I'd like to say that I *have* been listening to all those people who tell me to cherish these moments because they go by so fast.  And so I'd like to share with you my top favorite things about my tiny new daughter so far.  I've...

"Welcome to Motherhood" - An all encompassing guidance manual

Hi guys,  Thanks to Clive Higgins for his suggestion on the title for this blog post. In this post, I shall attempt to summarize what I have learned so far about new motherhood. Let's start though, with the fact that I'm tired.  I'm bone-deep, in another world tired.  It doesn't matter how much help I get (and I have a LOT of help)...this tiredness makes me feel like I'm not actually here.  I'm really deep inside my head somewhere, sort of swimming up toward the surface.  When people talk to me, I try to find the appropriate words sometimes and they won't come.  I told Ryan the other day that I could probably lie down in the median of the highway, up against the metal divider in the dirty grass with the plastic cups and detritus all around me and fall soundly asleep.  I think maybe it is starting to get slightly better, but I'm unsure.  Really, I should be sleeping now and not writing this blog post.  But it feels so good to do somethi...

Oh, the HUMANITY

Hello Folks, So, I've been debating whether or not to write a blog entry on pregnancy.  I have so many conflicting emotions about sharing my thoughts on this matter.  I worry that I will be judged - because I am learning that pregnant women and parents in general are judged harshly...by everyone it seems.  Everyone, regardless of whether they have gone through it or not, seems to have opinions on the right and wrong way to be pregnant and raise a child.  I worry about sharing Too Much Information.  I worry that this has all been discussed, ad nauseam and no one really cares what I might have to say on the topic.  Nonetheless, I have so many thoughts, and it feels good to share them with ya'll.  So I'm going to jump on in and do it, judgement be damned! The Obvious This may be an obvious point, but I will say, for the record, that this is basically the most important, biggest life changing event that has ever happened to me.  It feels like my w...